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Fantasy Pushing

Kink is rooted in consent, and Submit reflects that principle. Users are encouraged to explore and share their interests, but must do so in ways that respect others’ comfort, autonomy, and boundaries.

“Fantasy pushing” refers to projecting your own fantasies onto other users without their clear consent. This includes sexual or fetishized interpretations of someone else’s presence, content, or identity.

What Counts as Fantasy Pushing?

Fantasy pushing can take many forms, including:

  • Commenting on someone’s post with unsolicited sexual or fetish interpretations.
  • Sending DMs that describe or imply a fantasy involving the recipient without their consent.
  • Assuming roles, dynamics, or intentions that haven’t been explicitly agreed upon.
  • Making public posts that target specific users or groups with a personal fantasy, dynamic, or scene scenario.

This applies across all content: media, status updates, posts, events, comments, group interactions, and DMs.

Key Rules & Expectations

  • If your comment or message contains a fantasy or sexual element that involves another person, you must have clear, enthusiastic consent.
  • Public spaces are not opt-in zones for fantasy.

2. Respect Boundaries

  • Do not make assumptions about someone’s roles, interests, kinks, or dynamics based on their profile or content.
  • Do not imply submission, dominance, or other roles without explicit agreement.

3. No DM Fantasies

  • Sending unsolicited fantasies, scene descriptions, or fetish content via DMs is strictly prohibited.

4. Fetishizing Identities

  • Do not fetishize users based on identity, body type, race, gender, disability, or any other trait.
  • This includes remarks framed as compliments.

Enforcement

  • Warnings will be issued for minor or first-time violations.
  • Timeouts or bans will follow repeated or serious offenses.
  • Zero tolerance applies in DMs or when someone reports feeling violated or harassed.

Best Practices

  • When in doubt: ask first.
  • Use tags or captions to share your fantasies without targeting others.
  • If someone asks you to stop, stop immediately. You don’t need to understand a boundary to respect it.

Consent makes kink work — and it’s what makes Submit work.